love before marriage

aku terbaca satu artikal kat facebook. cerita nye sungguh panjang lebar yang mengisahkan seorang anak lelaki yang sungguh alim bercinta ngan seorang wanita yang sangat2 solehah dari segala segi. tetapi anak lelaki tu dihalang bercinta dengan wanita idamannye tu oleh ibu nye. walaupun cara diorang berhubung sangat2 terhad disebabkan nak menjaga segala batasan pergaulan antara mereka. yang buat aku tertarik adalah dialog antara ibu lelaki dan lelaki tersebut.

“I haven’t found any entry in Islam that permit what you are doing right now. I haven’t heard from anyone that love before marriage is permitted. But I know there’s no relationship between male and female except for what is very important and official between them. So, may I know what kind of relationship you are having now and I want to hear it from your mouth that it is legal in what you have been learning until now.”

“Not a single phrase, nor a word.”

“My sweetheart, if you want to build a family, a faithful one, you can never build it on what Allah has stated as wrong and proven false by the way Rasulullah PBUH has taught us. A happy and blessed family come from Allah, and you don’t even have anything to defend it as blessed if the first step you make is by stepping into what He has prohibited. You can’t have a happy family if Allah doesn’t help you so, and you must know in every family that stands until their dying day, they have Allah on their side. You can’t expect Him to help you if you did the wrong step from the very beginning.”

aku bukan la ustaz or pandai sangat nak berhujah2 bab2 agama. tapi artikal ni sedikit sebanyak buat aku sedar betapa jahil nye aku dulu. sedangkan anak lelaki yang sangat alim bercinta ngan menjaga segala batasan pun tak bleh, ini kan plak kite2 yang sembahyang sunat pun tak berapa rajin nak buat ni, lagi jauh la hanyut nye.





~RENUNG-RENUNG KAN DAN SELAMAT BERAMAL~

1 comments:

Nur said...

hehe..bagus jugak info ko ni~~~ hehe

me, myself & i

jangan nak berlagak pandai kalo pandai
jangan nak tunjuk bodoh kalo bodoh